Exploring arranged marriage option

[Arnav]

I am divorced, 28-year-old male, engineer from NIT, master's from IISc Bangalore, height 5'9" and working at Nvidia with a package of 49 LPA. I've been a topper all my life and for the past three years I've been into fitness, with a 4‑pack, thick biceps and broad shoulders. I gave my best, all my life. Did everything I could, still got cheated on and now divorced.

My first marriage happened after four years of dating. Should I go back to dating or try an arranged marriage? I live in Bangalore.

[Shailesh]

How long ago did you get married? How much time has passed since your divorce?

[Manav]

Are you a sir? I feel that the more educated a person is, the more messed up their love life becomes... My faith in all this is gone... Let's just stay single peacefully... If there's loneliness, adopt a child, love them, take care of them.

[Varunesh]

Bruh, Nvidia, tier‑1 degree, almost 5‑6 years of experience, and your package is around 49 LPA? Just curious, but I heard Nvidia pays like FAANG.

[Shilpa]

I feel sorry for you. It wasn't your fault. People mess up. Remember, what's gone is gone. Start a fresh new life. All the best for your future.

[Nikhil]

Dating vs arranged isn't the real issue; the real issue is whether you've healed from your last relationship. Don't let one person's betrayal decide how you'll meet the next person.

[Rajendra]

You can marry a divorced woman now.

[Sunita]

You just got divorced. I'd suggest you take some time and heal from the trauma you faced.

[Shailesh]

Wait what, got cheated in a love marriage??!! What the heck! I don't know how to react to this. Sorry, OP, that you had to go through this. Hope you heal soon. I don't have advice on dating vs arranged. At this point staying away from marriage altogether seems the best option. *ugh*

[Kishore]

First, tell us about the divorce story.

[Rahul]

You should focus on what makes you happy and find love through good chemistry. Whether that comes from dating or an arranged marriage doesn't matter; focus on love rather than just a suitable match.

There's more to life than work and marriage, so find that before getting remarried.