Experiences with penis sizes?

Started by Shashi, May 24, 2026, 11:22 AM

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Shashi

I know this might sound a bit silly or even insensitive, but hear me out.

Just like penis sizes differ, vaginal sizes also vary, right? I understand the vagina is an elastic organ that stretches (obviously!), but there must be some basic size differences, yes?

I've had a few partners, enough to notice that some penises are actually too small to fully satisfy me. There was one long‑term partner who was a great "fit", but after a few months I started wishing he was just a tad bigger. At first, penetration was fine with him and later even great, but I didn't expect to want him bigger over time. Has anyone else experienced this?

Pure curiosity. No hate, please.

Jignesh

I agree with the first part, but the second part never happened to me. Once I liked someone, I never felt the need for it to be bigger or smaller. If something isn't big enough, it just isn't.

Shivam

I never believed there was a 'right' size until I met my boyfriend. I don't judge anyone and I've never left someone because of size, but it's a mix of many factors.

Tarun


Siddharth

Reading your comments, I also prefer penetration/finger over clitoral stimulation. In my experience, the right technique plus a suitable length and width matter. Technique gives an edge; if they don't know what they're doing it's useless. So yes, the appropriate length and width do matter.

Rupali

I've had one partner who was decent in size, but the experience was always unsatisfactory. He would only do one thing and never wanted to explore or listen to what I wanted. He also never performed oral because he said his parents are very strict and he gets nervous.

Bottom line: you can prefer many things, but if your partner doesn't know how to please you, it's pointless.

Harish

I'd like to hear anyone's experience with a small penis.

Charu

No matter how many people say size doesn't matter, it really does. It doesn't have to be massive, but a bigger penis is generally more satisfying. I've always enjoyed penetration more when the guy is a bit longer and girthier-not too much though! That said, an average size can work if the person has good technique and knows your body. Obviously there's a lot more to sex than just penetration.

Kartik

I'd say it's a mix of many things. Size never bothered me. At first a larger size (beyond average) felt uncomfortable, but after a while it became normal.

I'd rather have foreplay than sex any day; sex can be overrated.