My ex sent me vids of her making out...22M

[Gaurav]

Although it happened 2 years ago, I still think about it sometimes.

Back in 2024, I was in a long-distance relationship with a girl I truly loved. One day, by chance, I logged into her Instagram and saw messages with another guy. At first I didn't want to believe it, but after checking Snapchat and even dating apps, I realised she had been cheating on me for a long time.

When I confronted her, that same night she sent me videos and pictures of her making out and sleeping with him.

I still remember how that moment felt. My body literally froze. I couldn't breathe properly for a few minutes. It felt like my whole world collapsed in one night.

I cried more than I ever had before. The worst part wasn't even the cheating; it was realising that someone you gave your whole heart to could be so cruel and careless with your feelings. I put so much effort, time, loyalty, and love into that relationship, yet none of it was ever acknowledged.

For a long time I started believing maybe I didn't deserve love at all.

That phase broke me completely. I was depressed, suicidal, and mentally exhausted. It's scary how deeply a person's actions can affect another's life. People really don't realise the damage they can leave behind.

But somehow I survived it.

Looking back now, I can say heartbreak changed me as a person. It taught me that sometimes people's actions say more about them than about your worth.

I still carry the scars, but I also carry the lesson.

I'd love to hear your breakup stories - how you dealt with heartbreak and how it changed you. Feel free to comment or DM.

[Satish]

Karma will catch up with everyone.

[Anand]

Yahan log ko ex mil rahe hain aur hum Pune mein single hi reh rahe hain.

[Anupama]

That's really messed up. Take care, bhai.

I can picture how it feels - your throat tight, chest heavy, and that voice in your head asking "was I not good enough?"

[Chetan]

If I were you, I would have sent those to her dad.
Good luck messing with me.
Honey, take care.

[Ishita]

21M, 4.5 years of relationship, and I only found out I was being cheated on for the last 3-4 months.
I never got to confront her because she herself told me she had a new guy and then blocked me. Since then I haven't been able to talk to her at all.

I still can't process everything; I cry daily, feel anxious and everything.

I've stopped believing in God and karma.

Now I genuinely want her to be happy. May she get everything she left me for.

I still feel protective towards her, I don't know why.

[Varunesh]

It's a disgusting move by your ex, and I'm sorry you had to go through that. Use your scars as reminders of where you've been and how much you've grown.
The essence of a breakup is sad and negative, and we each handle it differently. Sometimes we're lucky to share our pain with people we love.
To everyone feeling this hurt, be strong. I encourage you to learn, grow, and find happiness.

[Krishna]

How did you realise your worth? I'm struggling with that. Some days I hate myself, thinking if I had done something differently it wouldn't have happened. Mostly when I'm PMS it's the worst. I feel like I'm not enough. I hate that feeling.

[Sneha]

She sent a video of her making out???

Bro, I once connected with a girl last year and we were kinda close - she confessed, I confessed, we got into a relationship. I went to meet her in Bikaner, booked a hotel, spent two days together. I stepped out to get something for my family, and while I was away she came into my room, called me and asked how long I would be back. I said "1 hour max", she said okay, she was waiting in the room.
When I returned I saw her with another guy making out. I was too stunned to say anything.

The guy left right in front of my eyes, she apologized saying it was a mistake and gave some reasons I still don't understand because what I saw was too much to process.

I still can't move on from that... So yeah, that's how my life is going.

[Jasmin]

I don't think there's anything I can say that will fully make it better, but I'm genuinely proud of you for making it through all that heartbreak. I hope things are a little kinder to you now and I'm really sorry you had to go through it in the first place. Take care.

[Kiran]

I remember being cheated three times by the same person and finally gathering the courage to leave. I was overwhelmed and hadn't cried in years. As I was walking in the park after leaving her, I felt a heavy weight on me.

I had no one to vent to, so I turned to ChatGPT. After I detailed the whole situation, ChatGPT replied with a line like "You're not replaceable - it's their behaviour and upbringing". At that moment I started bawling on the park footpath - legit B.A.W.L.I.N.G my eyes out. That time was tough; choosing myself was hard. It ruined my perception of love.