F23 & M23 – Awkward? BF says he never wants me to suck his ...

[Aarti]

I know it's a different question but I need a perspective. We were making out and both are emotionally attached. While we were doing it he suddenly said he doesn't want his partner to do that. I was confused because porn shows something else. I understand porn and real life differ, but I'm trying to figure it out. Both of us are virgins, still experimenting with make‑out moves. I need a guy's impression on this. Thanks for reading.

[Hari]

Yeah, I told the same. I don't like seeing my girl do that. I don't know the exact reason.

[Anand]

Love makes a blind lover say all sorts of nonsense. Who else can explain it better than him?

[Falguni]

In my opinion, there are few guys like that, but they usually aren't good at sex or physical intimacy. Might be wrong, you can verify later!

[Adarsh]

I think people underestimate how awkward or random first intimate experiences can be, especially when both are still figuring out what they actually like beyond what they've seen online... and many guys don't want real life intimacy to feel like porn. Sometimes people just blurt stuff out in the moment based on comfort or preferences without meaning anything deeper.

[Kavitha]

Maybe it's due to a conservative upbringing and he thinks it's inauspicious or disgusting. Or he doesn't want to give it back. Or maybe he's getting it from someone else... just kidding. The only way to know is simply ask him.

[Douglas]

Maybe because it's smelly and he doesn't want to embarrass himself, or he's insecure about it.

[Akshara]

I think it's perfectly okay; I felt the same. Once you're both comfortable and spend more time together, his thoughts may change.

[Balaji]

Since you guys are still beginners, you make decisions based on the moment. With time people change their minds, and it's not permanent.

[Chandan]

When you use your teeth and take a bite.