Women in male‑dominated fields

[Deepika]

I've seen a lot of posts about men spamming DMs when they realise you're a lady.

Well... plot twist, I guess times are changing.

I posted in my city subreddit today looking for a flatmate because I'm moving out. Got the usual DMs from men trying to be "friends" (obviously I didn't reply).

Then a woman messaged, genuinely interested in the flat. The chat started normal – rent, location, etc.

She then casually said she's bisexual.

I told her the current flatmate is a bit traditional, so having guests over could be an issue.

She asked, "Okay, what about you?"

I said I'm fine, but she won't be staying with me anyway.

Then she hit me with, "I know, but you seem fun and I'd like to know you better... are you into girls?"

I was like .

Did NOT expect this plot twist today, lol.

Anyone else experienced something like this?

[Harini]

Fir aage kya hua?

[Pranav]

Mujhe lagta hai woh aurat nahi thi.

[Komal]

Bisexual ladkiyan, DM karo na

[Lavanya]

Main paise laga ke kahunga ki "aurat" asal mein mard hi tha...

[Deepak]

Main bhi ek queer aurat hoon, aur kai queer auratein aur trans‑masc log sochte hain ki mardo jaise act karne se unko zyada attention milegi. Iska matlab hai ki woh mardo ke sabhi buraaiyon ko copy karte hain.

Upar se, jab koi "bisexual" kehta hai, toh ho sakta hai ki woh sirf experiment kar rahi ho ya phir unicorn dhoond rahi ho, ya phir woh aurat hi nahi hai. Maine aise bi label ka galat istemal dekha hai.

[Sanjay]

Bi ladkiyon ko DM karne ke liye mujhe kya karna padega?

[Nitin]

Is sub se mujhe 2‑3 DM aaye hain jinhone kaha ki woh aurat hain, lekin mujhe pakka pata nahi. Main abhi Mumbai shift hua hoon, isliye Indian ladkiyon se dosti karna chahta hoon, par jo milta hai woh sabhi horny log—mard bhi aur aurat bhi.

[Hitesh]

Mujhse bhi ek baar aisa hi hua... koi ladki aayi aur mere body mist ki review maangi, par baat beech mein hi horny request mein badal gayi. Main turant usko block kar diya.

[Daksha]

Kya tumhe pakka yakin hai ki woh aurat thi? Shayad koi mard catfish kar raha tha?