Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life

Started by Jai, Today at 12:52 AM

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Jai

I'm 21, an only child. My mom died just two weeks ago and my dad passed away eight years back. I last saw my mom on 2nd May in the hospital; she passed on 4th May after the NEET result. On 3rd May she was in critical condition. Suddenly my whole life changed in just 2-3 weeks. Everything changed. I had to shift from the state where we had our beautiful house to another state. I'm going through huge emotional turmoil. My NEET exam is just three weeks away and I can't focus on studies or even process what I used to study. If I don't get into college, I feel like a loser living with this grief. I can't share how I'm feeling. It's only been two weeks and the world feels so fast. Please share your thoughts, at least how I can cope with this turmoil.

Aditya

Bro, talk about it more. Reddit is anonymous, just write whatever comes to your mind and get it out. Try focusing on spirituality and stay strong.

Neha

Hey, please don't give up. Don't think about ending your life. It's not the end of everything, trust me. I may not know exactly how you feel right now, but tell yourself that this too will pass. Reach out to close friends and trusted family members and talk to them. NEET isn't the only option, dude. If you have good 12th board scores you can consider other bio‑related courses like biotech or honours. Stay strong, brother. It's not the time to quit. You have to keep living, hope you feel better.

Imran

Bhai, you can DM me if you need someone to talk to. Please remember her and keep studying.

Omkar

Bhai, pour your heart out here. They wouldn't want you to do something rash. Make them proud!

Ujjwal

Condolences, bro. You'll feel better after a while. Don't take any drastic step.

Harish

Bro, please don't think about that. Listen, Krishna asked Arjuna if he would feel sorrow and regret for killing his own family, and Krishna said that everything in this world follows its own rules and we must act according to dharma. Stay strong, do your duty, and work hard. Think of your parents as guiding you; they would want you to study for the upcoming exam and build your career. I pray you'll rock NEET, stay confident. Regards.

Arnav

Sorry for your loss, it's hard to imagine what you're going through. Please stay strong; your parents are proud of you.

Rekha

Bro, anytime you feel like talking or need someone to vent (even give a few gaalis), I'm here. DM me whenever you want.

Manish

Hello, please take care of yourself. This too shall pass. I can't fully understand the emotional turmoil you're facing, but please stay strong. You've been a good child to your parents and I'm sure they're proud of you.

Sunita

Please be strong. It's okay if you can't focus on studies right now; don't stress about it because you're going through a lot. I won't promise everything will get better instantly, but you'll adapt over time. Give yourself time, it will help, and share your feelings with family or DM me.