Girl who can't adjust?

[Prakash]

I'm talking to a 38-year-old woman. We planned to meet last Sunday.

First she said she only meets in the evening, so we set 6 pm. I agreed.

Then she moved it to 1 pm. I agreed again.

Later she cancelled on Sunday morning saying she was unwell. I said no problem.

After that she asked if we could meet for an hour on a weekday evening.

I told her evenings are a bit tough for me because my job throws random requests, so I can't promise anything but will let her know by 3 pm on a weekday if I have a slot.

Her job starts at 11 am, and my calls start at 11 am too.

I thought maybe we could meet for an hour in the morning, since I have more control then than in the evenings.

I just asked her to shift once, and she immediately replied, "No yr, mujhse utha nahi jaata."

Today I politely said that both of us need to adjust if a relationship is to work, and that seemed to upset her.

She can't get up early, but she doesn't realise I'm already adjusting for her three times.

She sleeps at 2 am and wakes at 10 am. Seems like she's used to living without adjusting for anyone for 38 years, and she doesn't see that as the main problem in her attitude.

[Vijay]

Bro, just move on. You're dealing with a 38-year-old girl-child. She's not the right one for you.

[Murali]

By now you should see that she's not interested in you.

[Yash]

Bhai, a girl is considered a girl only up to 18, after that we call her a woman.

[Swati]

If someone is interested, they'll find a way to meet or spend time with the person they like. In your case, she's not interested; she's just giving excuses. Don't waste your time.

[Amar]

Please move on!

[Rohit]

Looks like the OP has already moved on. This seems like a rant.

[Vivek]

Men are approaching her and putting in effort... She's 38 and single for a reason.

[joshi]

Older women can behave oddly; I've had a similar experience too.

[Abhishek]

Not sure how to say this without offending, but this really shows her age...

[Kishore]

You're trying to figure out why she's single at 38.

Find a new girl.