Rejections can hurt way more than most.

Started by Kamal, Mar 29, 2026, 02:53 AM

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Kamal

I've been in this process for over 2.5 years, so I've seen it all—rejections, no replies, ghosting, last‑minute plan cancellations.

Now I got a rejection on a proposal that was almost perfect for both of us. I've cried three times in the last two days.

Feels like people are treating this whole thing casually now. Not sure how long it'll last.

Sohan


Jagdish

What was the reason behind their rejection?

Ashwin

How do they do it? Over a phone call, through a mediator, or face‑to‑face?

Vijay

Same here—his parents didn't agree, even though we clicked like soulmates.

Kavitha

No matter how good you are, you can always be replaced.

Harry

You could be the prettiest pink, but it doesn't matter if they prefer blue!

That line really helps me move forward.

Pranay

It's part and parcel of this process, man.

It happened to me too.

Be patient; you'll find yours.

Arjit

Don't lose hope... sometimes it just takes time to find your person ❤️

Anjali

We were a perfect match, like soulmates.

At first, she was the one doing most of the pushing. But her parents are big on horoscopes, and she has a manglik dosha while I don't. So they backed out, saying the dosha makes it unsuitable for marriage.

I waited two to three weeks while they decided. Eventually she stopped trying to convince them.

It's only been a week, and I'm still healing... ❤️‍