My (20M) ex (19F) unblocked me, wants to meet within 24 hrs. I'm confused.

[Mohaideen]

She and I dated for around 1.5 years and broke up 2 years ago. Since then we only chat occasionally, maybe once every couple of months.

A month ago we had a one hour call that turned into a fight about our past. She blamed me for a lot, I gave my side, and when I raised points she couldn't answer, she changed the topic. Right after the call she blocked me on Instagram.

A month later she unblocked me and immediately asked if I was in our hometown because she really wanted to meet before she leaves for college. The thing is, she isn't moving far - we live in the same city and she'll be back during holidays, so it's not like this is our last chance.

What confused me more is that she spent 4-5 hrs trying to convince me to meet the next day, even though we haven't met since the breakup. I said no and she dropped it.

So I'm curious, from a girl's point of view, why would someone block their ex after an argument, then a month later unblock them and push so hard to meet? What could be going on in her mind?

[Jai]

Probably loneliness or PMS, no one can say for sure. But don't overthink it. Someone who wasn't good to you won't suddenly change. Kudos for saying no and staying away!

[Angel2cute111]

Maybe she just wants to explain her side of the breakup.

[Mukesh]

She's probably not over you, that's what it means.

[Parth]

Don't overthink much, just chill and then think.