Boyfriend joked about raping GTA NPC sex worker - am I overreacting?

Started by Harini, Apr 16, 2026, 06:43 AM

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Harini

So my boyfriend and I were joking about GTA and the NPCs, especially the sex workers. I pretended to be one and playfully hit him, then he joked that he would just rape the NPC if she did too much. That really upset me. He also swears a lot during sex, and when I asked if he would freely cuss and be rough if he ever hired a sex worker, he said, "of course, I paid for it." I felt absolutely disgusted and told him how I felt. He apologised and said that's not what I meant. I would only do it with consent, etc. We had a huge fight and I think we've broken up. Am I overreacting? I'm very upset. He was my only support. I have no friends here and I'm away from my family. Update: I broke up with him. Told him I can't overlook this. I'm so sad and don't know what to do...

Mister


Vikram

This will turn disastrous if you end up married and he thinks nothing will change. Please nip it in the bud before men like him become horrific to women.


Jatin

Bro, you're seriously underreacting. Please distance yourself from him.

Vaishali

No, no, no. I'll be your friend - just don't go back to him.

Jignesh

You did the right thing by leaving. Your ex-boyfriend sounds disgusting.


Darshan

Bro, leave him quickly. Run away, don't think twice. I'm triggered by anyone making fun of rape - it's a complete no.

Ananya

We live in a country where marital rape isn't even criminalised. Do you really want to stay with someone who fantasises about rape?

Shashi

Women sharing such a horrible, violating experience with men they call boyfriends - am I overreacting? Oh my god, girl.