The constant trauma and endless fights have driven me mad. I'm sad that they're separating, but my dad is a nightmare, so I'm also relieved for my mom. My dad has been openly dating another girl; she just pretended nothing was wrong, but now she got a new job and can support herself.
Dad constantly screams and hits us, especially my elder brother. He also hits me, my elder sister, and even Mom when he's drunk. I'm really grateful they're divorcing because now I'll stay with Mom. Mom can't afford to send me abroad for studies, but I know Dad will pay for it even if I don't live with them.
I don't see any reason for them to stay together. Mom deserves so much more. I just wanted to share that sometimes letting go is better, and I'm writing this while tears are rolling down my cheeks, even though I feel a bit happy. I'm the youngest, only 18, but what I've witnessed will stay with me forever. People say childhood is the best part of life, but that's not true for me—I'm just glad this is ending.
Oh! That line about your childhood not being the best part really hit home. But now you get to write your own chapters. You can make new memories with people you love and build a fresh future. Wishing you all the best!
Happy for you and so proud of your mom! She's incredibly brave. Always be there for her and remind her how strong she is.
You could call it a bittersweet ending. You'll find peace knowing the abuse has stopped, even if seeing other happy families feels tough. Focus on the good side—your mom chose to stand up, and that's something to be proud of. Many parents sacrifice for their kids, and reading posts like this gives me hope. I hope you enjoy a peaceful life ahead. ❤️
Divorce is a choice your parents made to be happy, and you can find happiness in their happiness too.
Good for you, your mom and brother. Be happy and don't overthink—support Mom.