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Title: Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life
Post by: Jai on May 26, 2026, 12:52 AM
I'm 21, an only child. My mom died just two weeks ago and my dad passed away eight years back. I last saw my mom on 2nd May in the hospital; she passed on 4th May after the NEET result. On 3rd May she was in critical condition. Suddenly my whole life changed in just 2-3 weeks. Everything changed. I had to shift from the state where we had our beautiful house to another state. I'm going through huge emotional turmoil. My NEET exam is just three weeks away and I can't focus on studies or even process what I used to study. If I don't get into college, I feel like a loser living with this grief. I can't share how I'm feeling. It's only been two weeks and the world feels so fast. Please share your thoughts, at least how I can cope with this turmoil.
Title: Re: Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life
Post by: Aditya on May 26, 2026, 12:52 AM
Bro, talk about it more. Reddit is anonymous, just write whatever comes to your mind and get it out. Try focusing on spirituality and stay strong.
Title: Re: Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life
Post by: Neha on May 26, 2026, 12:52 AM
Hey, please don't give up. Don't think about ending your life. It's not the end of everything, trust me. I may not know exactly how you feel right now, but tell yourself that this too will pass. Reach out to close friends and trusted family members and talk to them. NEET isn't the only option, dude. If you have good 12th board scores you can consider other bio‑related courses like biotech or honours. Stay strong, brother. It's not the time to quit. You have to keep living, hope you feel better.
Title: Re: Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life
Post by: Imran on May 26, 2026, 12:52 AM
Bhai, you can DM me if you need someone to talk to. Please remember her and keep studying.
Title: Re: Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life
Post by: Omkar on May 26, 2026, 12:52 AM
Bhai, pour your heart out here. They wouldn't want you to do something rash. Make them proud!
Title: Re: Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life
Post by: Ujjwal on May 26, 2026, 12:52 AM
Condolences, bro. You'll feel better after a while. Don't take any drastic step.
Title: Re: Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life
Post by: Harish on May 26, 2026, 12:52 AM
Bro, please don't think about that. Listen, Krishna asked Arjuna if he would feel sorrow and regret for killing his own family, and Krishna said that everything in this world follows its own rules and we must act according to dharma. Stay strong, do your duty, and work hard. Think of your parents as guiding you; they would want you to study for the upcoming exam and build your career. I pray you'll rock NEET, stay confident. Regards.
Title: Re: Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life
Post by: Arnav on May 26, 2026, 12:52 AM
Sorry for your loss, it's hard to imagine what you're going through. Please stay strong; your parents are proud of you.
Title: Re: Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life
Post by: Rekha on May 26, 2026, 12:52 AM
Bro, anytime you feel like talking or need someone to vent (even give a few gaalis), I'm here. DM me whenever you want.
Title: Re: Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life
Post by: Manish on May 26, 2026, 12:52 AM
Hello, please take care of yourself. This too shall pass. I can't fully understand the emotional turmoil you're facing, but please stay strong. You've been a good child to your parents and I'm sure they're proud of you.
Title: Re: Lost parents on 4th May, feeling like ending life
Post by: Sunita on May 26, 2026, 12:52 AM
Please be strong. It's okay if you can't focus on studies right now; don't stress about it because you're going through a lot. I won't promise everything will get better instantly, but you'll adapt over time. Give yourself time, it will help, and share your feelings with family or DM me.