That's me in both pictures - the one on the left was taken by me about 10 years ago, and now I'm in my 20s. I was just scrolling through an old phone and found these childhood photos, and all the trauma I went through came flooding back. Everyone used to comment on my dark skin, mock me, make jokes. No one ever realised how hard it was for me to even look at myself in the mirror. My friends, family - everyone made me feel worthless. Every night I would cry instead of sleeping peacefully. As a child I was supposed to have a happy, joyful time, but I never got that. No one loved me the way the other kids in my family were treated. I think it was because of my skin colour - dark‑skinned people seem to face constant judgment while lighter‑skinned folks get to enjoy life without that fear. I even had suicidal thoughts and worried about my looks every single day. Then I decided to change things. I visited a dermatologist, got a routine, and now I feel decent and confident, thanks to God and the people who love me for who I am, not how I look. The photo on the right is from a recent trip. Guys, do I look any good now?
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You have a really symmetrical and pleasant face. I too went through childhood trauma because of my weight. That pain may never fully disappear, but I would suggest you look after your body and practice self‑love. Self‑love is the best kind of love, even when others don't give it to you. Speaking up against fat‑shaming, colour‑shaming, or any other bias has helped me a lot - it feels incredibly empowering.
Wow, what a glow‑up! The first picture had such an innocent vibe. Okay, now tell me your skincare routine.
Please share the routine and help out the bros out there.
Dude, I'm 31 and would love to have that facial hair you've got! No sugar‑coating - you really look good.
That's a massive change in your skin tone. Was the old photo just a tan, not your natural colour?
Which brand are the actives from?
What was your face wash? Also, do you have any pictures from your first visit to the dermatologist? You mentioned using actives like kojic acid and niacinamide - could you share which brands you used and how you applied them? If possible, could you name the dermatologist? He did a great job. P.S. You look great in the photo.
If you can, please share your skincare routine along with the brand names you're using.
You look healthy and glowing, and I hope you're feeling as good as you look. That's what matters most. That little child shouldn't have endured all that crying and bullying. I hope your inner child now feels safe and at peace. Take care of yourself, brother.
Same story, but nothing changed.