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Title: Mom found condoms in my room (22F)
Post by: Riya on May 07, 2026, 04:37 AM
So my parents went back to our hometown and my boyfriend stayed over. We were intimate, and my mom knew we were dating and that he was visiting, but she didn't know he was actually staying the night. My boyfriend and I checked every corner before they came back, but mom still found a torn condom wrapper on the sheets and a take‑out dinner cover with tissues and another torn wrapper inside. I've tried everything – blaming a friend (she never comes over), saying it was a wrong order, even making balloons. My boyfriend and I really want to make it work, but mom won't listen and told me to cut him off completely (she used to like him a lot). I'm thinking of saying we were just curious and didn't go through with it, but I have no idea what to do!
Title: Re: Mom found condoms in my room (22F)
Post by: Tanmay on May 07, 2026, 04:37 AM
What's the worst that could happen according to you?
Title: Re: Mom found condoms in my room (22F)
Post by: Jayant on May 07, 2026, 04:37 AM
You know your parents aren't clueless, right? My hubby (back when he was just a boyfriend in college) used to come over once a week to study. We thought we were clever – keeping the door open and all that. Looking back now, I cringe at the excuses we gave for studying. An aunt even confirmed they knew. Your parents were teenagers and young adults once too. Own up if you can without causing more trouble, or just accept she'll be what she is – don't make up stories, it'll only make things worse.
Title: Re: Mom found condoms in my room (22F)
Post by: Kunal on May 07, 2026, 04:37 AM
Now that's the start of a solid coming‑of‑age story... just saying.
Title: Re: Mom found condoms in my room (22F)
Post by: Vinod on May 07, 2026, 04:37 AM
Making balloons? Wow, giniyes.
Title: Re: Mom found condoms in my room (22F)
Post by: Ishita on May 07, 2026, 04:37 AM
Padhne‑likhne ki umar hai aur yahan gubbare phula rahe hain


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Title: Re: Mom found condoms in my room (22F)
Post by: Madhuri on May 07, 2026, 04:37 AM
I'd just be honest (I'm 23) and apologise because it's their house first, not really mine.
Title: Re: Mom found condoms in my room (22F)
Post by: Tanuja on May 07, 2026, 04:37 AM
That's literally my worst nightmare. I usually clean my whole room and even change the sheets, lol. Sending you my sympathies, girl.
Title: Re: Mom found condoms in my room (22F)
Post by: Chandni on May 07, 2026, 04:37 AM
I was in the same spot. My cousin's sister found a stash in my bag, showed it to my mom while I was out of town. Since then my mom has been hating my boyfriend, she has endless complaints. I tried to spin a story but it's never going to change her mind.
Title: Re: Mom found condoms in my room (22F)
Post by: Gayatri on May 07, 2026, 04:37 AM
Timing of the post

Sorry OP, hope you do well


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Title: Re: Mom found condoms in my room (22F)
Post by: Aishwarya on May 07, 2026, 04:37 AM
You checked everything and still missed the condom wrappers on the bedsheet?