So today I woke up, was scrolling Instagram and saw my friends on a trip to Pune without telling me. They were posting stories and it felt like something died inside me. I can't even describe how bad I felt. I've lost all hope that something good will happen in my life. I feel like a loser just solving puzzles, and that's it!!
Don't lose hope, bro. It's the timing that's off, not you. Once you get that selection, you'll see the dots connecting and feel a change in how people treat you. So cheer up and keep hustling, man. Peace.
Same here, bro. My college friend went into IT after graduation, got a job and is now in Australia enjoying life to the fullest. Meanwhile I'm stuck solving DIs and puzzles, spending the whole day in my room.
They were never really close friends; they probably see you just as a colleague. I know it hurts, but that's life—move on. Remember, you're the main character in your own story.
Good thing you got the sign, man. Now at least you won't expect much from them. Take the lesson, move on. Focus on studies, eat well, spend time with family and don't overthink.
Were you born alone or with five others? Alone, right? How many months did it take you to become strong enough to get out? Nine months, right? Then why are you expecting anyone to be there for you while you're still in the process? Think of yourself as a cog in a machine. You're born with a task. You don't get love, care, or belonging just because you're born poor. That's the simple truth. Get up. Stop letting feelings hold you back. Feelings won't take you anywhere, but solving puzzles will. Imagine you have a stable job, you marry a beautiful lady because of that job, and you use your earnings to give her experiences she never imagined. You're a man. You won't get a medal for your sacrifices, but you have to bear them.
To be honest, they aren't really your friends. They're just classmates or college mates. I don't count people like that as friends.