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Title: Was I wrong to confront the guy
Post by: Divya on Mar 12, 2026, 10:12 PM
I met this guy on Instagram comments and we're the same age, but he's a year junior to me in college, we met back in December, I was giving him some study tips and we started talking about academics and stuff, we became friends and I could tell he had a crush on me, but I made it clear my priorities were different, so he didn't propose or anything, a few days ago we were playing truth and dare on discord and I was asking him about his past relationships and all, then he asked me if I did personal stuff, I said yeah I do and I don't see anything wrong with it, then he dared me to put red lipstick on like Lord Hanuman and I sent it to him on telegram, but he took a screenshot and sent it to me on Instagram with some funny text, I was really upset and confronted him about it, he said he was just joking around, but I told him he can't just take my privacy for granted, he apologized, but now I don't feel like talking to him, should I tell him why I'm cutting him off or just stop talking to him
Title: Re: Was I wrong to confront the guy
Post by: Jatin on Mar 12, 2026, 10:23 PM
I don't think you need to explain anything to him, you've already made your point, just have some self respect and move on
Title: Re: Was I wrong to confront the guy
Post by: Shalini on Mar 12, 2026, 10:30 PM
Honestly, someone took a photo you sent on view once and then made a joke about it publicly, and you're still wondering if you should talk to him, have some self respect, he lied to you and laughed about it, block him and forget about it, why are you even considering talking to him again, just tell him what he did was creepy and disrespectful and cut him off
Title: Re: Was I wrong to confront the guy
Post by: Kiran on Mar 12, 2026, 10:43 PM
I'm not surprised a 19 year old guy who had a crush on you turned out to be a creep
Title: Re: Was I wrong to confront the guy
Post by: Arisha on Mar 13, 2026, 02:05 AM
I don't get how you guys can confidently send pictures to guys you meet online