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Categories => Relationships, Dating & Marriage => Topic started by: Charu on Apr 16, 2026, 12:55 PM

Title: Recent chat with a match
Post by: Charu on Apr 16, 2026, 12:55 PM
Matched with a guy on Shaadi. I gave him my number and asked for his, but his dad called me and made the guy talk to me. I was fine with that. They didn't want to share his number.

He spoke casually. After a few minutes I asked about his future plans. He said, "Job, and I also do some freelance work." I thought he had a side hustle or a business. I then asked indirectly if it was moonlighting. He replied, "No, I help people get jobs with fake experience. They don't know how to do the work, so I work for that consultancy and get paid. You and your brother lived in the USA, so you should understand."

I was shocked and said, "That doesn't mean either of us faked our way to get a job, and whatever you're doing, how is that legal?"

He seemed taken aback and said, "It's been a year since I did that. They didn't want me anymore because of AI."

The guy has no sense of ethics; he's just enabling fraudsters. He never said it was wrong or that he'd stop. He even said, "I should start again". I was like, WTH.
Title: Re: Recent chat with a match
Post by: Mayank on Apr 16, 2026, 12:55 PM
Obviously this is wrong. Back in 2016, under the guise of freelancing, I was approached to help fraudsters in the US (Indians who had moved there). It's sad to see people do anything for money, throwing away basic morals and ethics.
Title: Re: Recent chat with a match
Post by: Hemant on Apr 16, 2026, 12:55 PM
"I should start again"

bruh, I thought that guy was going to become a good guy but what the heck
Title: Re: Recent chat with a match
Post by: Madhuri on Apr 16, 2026, 12:55 PM
So it's the recruiters who offer these kinds of jobs. The candidate isn't entirely at fault, except for being unethical.