So my boyfriend and I were joking about GTA and the NPCs, especially the sex workers. I pretended to be one and playfully hit him, then he joked that he would just rape the NPC if she did too much. That really upset me. He also swears a lot during sex, and when I asked if he would freely cuss and be rough if he ever hired a sex worker, he said, "of course, I paid for it." I felt absolutely disgusted and told him how I felt. He apologised and said that's not what I meant. I would only do it with consent, etc. We had a huge fight and I think we've broken up. Am I overreacting? I'm very upset. He was my only support. I have no friends here and I'm away from my family. Update: I broke up with him. Told him I can't overlook this. I'm so sad and don't know what to do...
That's a massive red flag, dear. Get out of there, bye.
This will turn disastrous if you end up married and he thinks nothing will change. Please nip it in the bud before men like him become horrific to women.
You made the right choice.
Bro, you're seriously underreacting. Please distance yourself from him.
No, no, no. I'll be your friend - just don't go back to him.
You did the right thing by leaving. Your ex-boyfriend sounds disgusting.
Why didn't you break up earlier?
Bro, leave him quickly. Run away, don't think twice. I'm triggered by anyone making fun of rape - it's a complete no.
We live in a country where marital rape isn't even criminalised. Do you really want to stay with someone who fantasises about rape?
Women sharing such a horrible, violating experience with men they call boyfriends - am I overreacting? Oh my god, girl.