This isn't a relationship advice post. I just want to know why some guys ignore you when you ask them not to be rough or bite you during make‑out. How hard is it to read cues and respect what a woman likes or dislikes? I was making out with a guy the other night and he kept biting me. I told him 3 times not to bite, and only then did he stop. He was also being quite rough with his hands, so I had to pull back and ask him politely to leave. He didn't look offended, just apologized and left after a few minutes. The whole thing still bugs me. I keep wondering why I had to repeat myself 3 times before he listened. What kind of entitlement do these men have, thinking they can do whatever they want and expect a woman to enjoy it?
I wouldn't give him three chances. He gets one chance, and if he can't respect it we stop. If neither of us is enjoying it, then neither of us gets to continue.
I slapped him. I did that once when I told a guy not to go lower and he still tried.
Bite him back and never let him touch you again. If he can't listen, he doesn't respect your boundaries.
Push him away and slap him. Scream at him and tell him to f*** off. Please leave the place.
Guys often don't listen because they feel entitled to a woman's body however they want. It's that simple and disgusting—no deeper nuance.
That's a form of sexual assault. If they force you into something you don't want, it's SA. I've dealt with such men before and only have regret. I wouldn't engage with a guy like that, no matter how 'nice' he seems.
Guys like that should never be allowed to touch you again.
Ask him to stop loudly and slap him so he knows you're not enjoying it.
You know that nonsense line "ladki ki na me han hoti hai". Some still believe it.
This isn't something you should have to "deal with". If someone ignores you when you clearly say no, that's a red flag. You shouldn't need to repeat yourself over and over. At that point it's not miscommunication; it's him ignoring your boundaries. If he can't respect something this basic, he's not worth your time.