guys 3 saal se ghar pe hoon
been through a lot emotionally and mentally
25 ki hoon but officialy 24
pehle upsc ki taiyyari ki fail ho gyi
abhi banking prep krri
life bhot ajeeb ho gyi h
I don't feel anything emotionally and I feel tired most of the times
I was an extrovert but ab kisi se call krke baat krne Tak ki himmat nhi hoti
yaa toh youtube scroll krti hoon yaa toh soti hoon
3 ghante ki padhai hi ho paati
pehle bhot ambitious thi
kya karu? how to increase my study hours? lgta h family ne kya maine khud giveup kar diya h khudpe and apme career pe?
kuch advice milegi?
Ye toh meri baat ho rhi
Can I DM you? I need a study partner.
krna pdega irrespective of your feeling
then it will be your daily habit
Yaar hamari sab ki life me koi aisa moment hota hai when we feel helpless, use that as a source of bringing change in your life, like you don't ever wanna suffer something like that ever again and prove to yourself that you have the ability to make it. Baki isse zyada idts there's anything that can motivate you to, change your habits, shuru me hard lagega but if u dont change then how do u expect your circumstances to change.
Study hours won't increase unless you want them to increase. Pahle thoda time lekar puchiye apne aap se ki kyu nahi ho paa raha ye?
Look into it, it might be because you are tired either mentally or physically, facing burnout, anxious about something or maybe you can't work because of low Vitamin D, iron and B12 levels. All of these are legitimate reasons.
If you find out the actual reasons, things will become better. Like I have done this many times and at the end, I used to get back on track. Not the most consistent, but improve to kar hi liya which is what matters
Okay girl listen,
Firstly, khudko ek target do and start working on it.
Daily chhote chhote targets complete kro.
Doesnt matter 3 hours study, that 3 hours should be quality study mate !!
This isn't UPSC, cheeze durable hai yahan banking mai.
Its just a little bit of discipline you need with a pinch of motivation that you can do it!!
Doesnt matter 3 saal hogye ya zyada. Everyone is going with his/her own pace.
Don't give up!! Because who knows, one day you'll be a motivation for this sub!!
Just try a little bit more and you'll soon see the magic happening with it in your results.
Smile & study..
Don't procrastinate. A chair in a random bank is waiting for you. Do for it !!!
(Fellow banker who got selected just like you after years)
Ye title to mere upar Fit baith raha hai
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Discipline comes above everything and before anything else, start your day with positivity
You are me and I am you. Today I had a crying session exactly because of these reasons. But yeah, I still believe, somehow, we can all make it through this time
In same condition but am a male and i think it is shameful for a man to sit at home at this age preparing for something so much uncertain. Do down vote this but also share your opinion on this